Thursday, 7 December 2017

My Current Wish List


Honestly, most of my Christmas list was home goods. As I’m getting older, I’m starting to ask for stuff for around the house because I genuinely don’t know when I’ll be moving out. So my list consisted for cookbooks, fairy lights, a Swiffer and small kitchen goodies like tea towels.
However, there are some clothing and accessory items that I’m currently loving so I thought I would share them today (they’re also things that I honestly never afford, but love anyways).

As per usual, my love for Gap’s winter items is strong. How cute is this sweater? Plus it would be so warm. I would totally wear this with leggings and running shoes to run errands or with a pair of jeans to a casual restaurant.

Seriously… Gap fit has been killing it this year with their cute gear. This is so adorable for days when it’s chilly enough for a jacket but warm enough that you don’t need a parka. It would look so cute with a simple knit scarf and messy bun.

In the past year or two, I’ve become all about comfort. When I’m at home, it’s usually my favourite t-shirt, favourite leggings or track pants and a pair of slippers. I’m loving this jacket to throw on over top for when I’m a touch cold… just kidding I’m almost always cold and wrapped in five blankets. Either way, this is adorable.

As I mentioned above, I’m all about comfort! Roots is my go-to comfort clothes. How cute is this sweater? It’s a zip-up hoodie, but the details are so adorable. P.S. instead of linking them separately, this would go wonderful with a pair of Roots leggings – another item on the wish list.

Until the age of about 19, I used to think that stripes were the devil because of that horrible myth they made you look bigger. Now, they’re my go-to. I’m loving longer sweaters. I’m so thankful that duster sweaters are coming back in style, which means that I have more of an excuse for leggings. How cute is this striped cardigan from Old Navy?

A second midi cardigan, my oh my! I actually featured this one on my mom gift guide. I keep looking at it for myself, though. It’s just so cute and looks so cozy.

When I first saw these jackets a few years ago, I thought ugh. However, one of my friends pointed out that it gave her serious season one Rory Gilmore vibes. Ever since, I’ve wanted one.

I love this jacket. I’ve been wanting a simple beige wool coat for a long time. Plus it’s under $75!

Over the past few years, I have struggled to find a trend that I’m head over heels for. I hate crop tops, lace up anything, the 90’s grunge, etc. However, I have fallen super hard for bell sleeves. If I could own everything from Anthropologie, I would. Unfortunately that’s not in my budget. I am super digging this bell-sleeve top though. So simple, yet so classic. Plus it’s a turtleneck and you can never go wrong with a turtleneck!

Like Anthropologie, Madewell is another store that I’m loving but could never justify spending the money with my current budget. I do love this bell-sleeve tee. Stripes and bell sleeves? Totally up my alley!

I’m not 100% if they’re the exact pair that I borrowed, but back in the summer, I wore a pair of my sister’s track pants after she picked up after drinks with my friends. These pants are almost identical, and I have literally had day dreams about them ever since. Plus, they’re under $35!

Uh yeah… how beautiful is this scarf? I’m especially loving the Crimson.

I saw these at Indigo a few months ago and fell in love. The #1 colour on my list is Henna, but also love the ink and forest. Definitely pricey, but definitely worth it. The reviews for these bad boys are awesome.
Again… another Matt & Nat bag. I could honestly spend hours looking at them in Indigo. I’m loving this bag in carbon, as well as black and ink.

You know those times you wish you hadn’t discovered a brand because you love their products so much? That’s exactly how I feel about Daniel Wellington. I discovered them about a year and a half ago via Tumblr and have been obsessed since.

If my girl Sam saw these on here, she’d flip – she always tells me how much she hates Adidas originals. I personally love this shoes and would get so much use out of them!

As previously mentioned, the older I get the more comfortable I want to be. Hence the two pairs of sneakers on my wish list. I just feel like these running sneakers are great for everyday wear with jeans and a sweater, or at the gym.

Again… another brand I probably wouldn’t have discovered without Tumblr. However, how adorable are these boots? I love them so much! They’re so versatile for autumn and winter.

Another item that I’ve had on my wish list forever is over the knee boots. How cute are these grey ones?!

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again – I’m the clumiest human in the world. After many falls, the worst last year, these boots are definitely high on my list of things I need to invest in. 

Tuesday, 5 December 2017

Updated & Revised: Having a Congenital Heart Disease



I wrote this article in July 2016, and it remains to be my most popular post to date. I thought that today I would re-write this article as I still strongly believe talking and advocating for myself and others is one of the best things I can do.

June 26, 1993 was the day that I was born. Within the first 24 hours, I had gone from being a healthy baby girl to being placed in a drug induced coma at Sick Kids Hospital in Toronto. By July 2, 1993, I had undergone my first open heart surgery. I was in the 1 in 100 statistic of a child born with congenital heart disease.

The Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada defines a CHD as:
Congenital heart disease happens at birth. A congenital heart defect happens when the heart or the blood vessels near the heart don’t normally develop before birth. Congenital heart defects are present in about 1% of live births and are the most frequent congenital malformations in newborns. In most cases, there is no known cause. In other cases, causes may include viral infections such as rubella, certain inherited conditions such as Down Syndrome or drug or alcohol abuse during pregnancy.
(source)

Since July 2, 1993, I have undergone a total of four open heart surgeries, eight catheterizations and one case of endocarditis. I have lost a complete count of how many doctor’s appointments I’ve had or how much time I’ve spent in the hospital. When I was twenty one, I figured out that it was close to six months of my life in total.

In 2016, my cardiologist and I had a good conversation about my medical procedures. I had heart surgery in 1993, 1994, 1995, 1997, 2001, 2006, 2008 and 2010. I also had my endocarditis in 2005. Some years, I had more than one procedure that year.

I was born with transposition of the great arteries. In layman’s terms, two of my arteries (the pulmonary and aorta) were reversed. I also have ventricular septal defect, which is when you have holes in your lower chambers. This means that I’ve had the holes filled as well as my aorta and pulmonary valves replaced.

For as long as I can remember, people have either pitied me, made comments about how they couldn’t do what I have or stare my scar until I feel uncomfortable. Here’s the #1 thing I want people to know – I’ve never lived a life without my scar, surgeries or regular appointments. I don’t know what it’s like to be in your shoes. I wish I did, but I don’t know.

Currently, I’m at seven years surgery free. That’s a huge accomplishment for me because the longest prior to this was five, but I did have endocarditis in that stretch. My goal is to make it ten years and a day surgery free. That means I have to make it until May 11, 2020.

Since May 11, 2020 is my goal – that makes May 10, 2010 the date of my last open heart surgery. My last surgery was a lot complicated than expected, and I consider it my second chance at life. When I went into my procedure, they didn’t even intend to use a bypass machine. Unfortunately, a CT scan missed that my heart stuck to my chest wall. Therefore, my heart literally exploded on the table when they opened me up and I was rushed onto bypass. The first 24 hours post-op was very touch and go as well. The blood flow was going properly between my heart and brain. The doctors were preparing my parents that I may have to go back into the cath lab or that I may wake up with brain damage. I woke up okay, and the only downfall is that I get migraines now.

As I go into adulthood, I have become more thankful for all the experiences that I’ve had that have made me stronger.

Congenital heart disease sucks. It’s painful, scary and overwhelming. There are going to be bad days and there are going to be days even worse than that. However, the good days will almost always outnumber the bad.

I’m at a point in my life where I embrace my congenital heart disease. I don’t sit and let myself be pitied anymore. If it wasn’t for my CHD, I don’t believe that I would have the relationship that I do with my family. If it wasn’t for their love, support and days spent with me at the hospital; I wouldn’t be here today. I wouldn’t have been taught to be strong, to raise my voice and educate others on what a CHD truly is.

For the parents of kids with CHD:
It’s going to be alright. It’s okay to be scared, overwhelmed, heart broken and any other emotion you want to feel. However, this isn’t your fault – you did nothing to cause this. Embrace the milestones, your child will remember. Something even as small as staying with them and holding their hand while they get an IV is something they’ll remember.
Be there to love and support through the difficult times, they’ll remember that, too. Give them lots of hugs and kisses, hold their hand when they need you, wipe their tears even if you’re holding back your own.
If you know you can’t handle something, take a step back and let someone else step in. That’s what your support system is for. Have your child’s godparent, sibling, other parent or your family friend help them. They’ll remember that and be thankful as they get older.
(I still remember my godmom always coming to appointments and doing something that my mom would hate, like zipping off those zip-off pant/shorts from the 90’s, but it’s a memory)

Remember, everything happens for a reason. The reason usually is to make you a stronger person. Having a congenital heart disease makes you stronger, and being the family member of someone who has one makes you strong, too.

If you’re interested in donating to help people like me, the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada and the Sick Kids Foundation are both wonderful organizations.

To finish, I wanted to share three of my all-time favourite commercials. The first one is from their sick not weak campaign because it’s always been my mantra. The second and third ones are their dad strong and mom strong videos, because I know both my parents relate to the videos. 



Monday, 4 December 2017

Links and Loves


I decided for my links and loves today that I would share some adorable homemade gift ideas that didn’t really suit any of my guides.

I love this DIY herb garden seed bomb set, plus it’s only $15!

This is an adorable gift for a teacher.

There are so many girls that love Gilmore Girls, like myself. This is a great gift for any Gilmore Girls fan, plus it’s under $20!

This make-your-own chai set is great for any tea lover.

Growing up with a hairstylist and barber in my family, I’ve learned that wine and gift cards are usually the go-to gift. This “Chop It Like It’s Hot” wall art is adorable, unique and is great décor for a salon.

This is such a great gift for anyone who needs pampering.

Why not get him some beer soap for a stocking stuffer? This one is under $10.


While on the topic of him, beard oil is a great gift for any guy with a beard! This set is so cute, plus it comes with two different scents. 

Sunday, 3 December 2017

101 Gluten Free Recipes for the Holiday Season


Having Celiac disease is hard during the Christmas season.
This is the typical conversation:
Me: Yum! This looks so good.
Second cousin: Oops, like the rest of the family I forgot you had Celiac disease.
Me: Aw man, guess I’ll just sit here with my mashed potatoes and NO gravy.
Family:
*just kidding, my family is pretty good but sometimes I do it find it hard.

Having a family member with Celiac disease, a gluten intolerance or just prefers to avoid gluten can be hard during the holiday season. Today, I created a list of 101 recipes in hopes that it eases the chaos. These recipes are delicious, unique and the rest of the family won’t notice that they’re gluten free!

Breakfast & Brunch
(this porridge would be so delicious with quinoa as a substitute)

Appetizers

Main Course Options

Sauces & Spreads
Paleo Cranberry Sauce (vegan option)
Savory Dripping Free Gravy (can easily be made vegan)

Sides

Desserts

Cocktails
Cranberry Mocktail (alcohol-free)



Friday, 1 December 2017

Gift Guide: For the Wine Lover


Anyone who knows me knows that I love wine. I had a wine night with two of my girlfriends last night. It involved some good ol’ wine, dancing and girl talk. I was sitting on the couch this morning, trying to come up with a good blog idea for today. I looked at the wine bottles on my kitchen table and thought of this. And voila, here we are!

Honestly, if you haven’t seen these on Facebook – I don’t know where you’ve been! I see these on my newsfeed almost daily. They’re so funny and great. They are fully functional but are also awesome gag gifts.

Botany Barn Canada’s candles sound so amazing! All natural, organic and under $10 for the red wine soap? Sounds like a great idea to me!

Sometimes the best gift is a bottle of your favourite wine. It means that the person really pays attention to you and what you like (if any of my friends are reading this and haven’t been paying attention – Bear Flag soft white is my favourite). So… with the favourite wine, why not throw it into a cute wine bag? This is a great bag, plus it opens the door for a great girls’ night!
How cute is this? Every month, there’s a new quote that relates to wine. For example, “wine is life’s way of apologizing for Mondays”.
How cute is this tea towel? It makes me want to sing my own version of Let It Snow! Plus it is a great gift, especially a hostess gift for under $15. Definitely worth it!


I couldn’t do a wine gift guide without a wine glass! How cute is this wine glass for Christmas parties? The glass is sure to stand out and get lots of compliments. Plus, it’s under $20 which is awesome!

I couldn’t not include a picture or two of my girls’ night. Quality isn’t the greatest since they were taken on my phone. 

P.S. Sam isn't a mom... we just ran out of glasses so we had to use one I got my mom for Mother's Day years ago, haha!