Monday, 12 September 2016

links + loves

 

Lately, I've been feeling uninspired. I've been working ridiculous hours at work, and I feel well... kind of exhausted. I just want to lay in my bed and sleep these days.
About a month ago, I received a lipstick sample set from Urban Decay's Vice line. So far, I've tried three of them. I'm really excited to try Oblivion for a new daily lipstick and Blackmail for the fall/winter lipstick.

I really love Etsy shops, there's no denying it. As I've grown up, I find that there will always be an Etsy shop with products that suit me. Lately, I've been super in love with FreshyFig, there are so many beautiful products.

Lastly, I find that my body is changing and I'm very unsatisfied with how my body is. I'm planning on starting some new workouts. Pinterest always gets me when I'm trying to find the perfect exercise routine. I plan on starting this routine ASAP. If I have any friends who want to get motivated with me, let me know!

Friday, 9 September 2016

The Serious Flaws in Developmental Services in Ontario

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Make fun of me all you want, but do you know what I love? I love current events. I read the newspaper, watch the morning and evening news and occasionally check in on CBC news throughout the day. I hate not knowing what’s going on in the world around me. Even if admitting it does make me seem like a 35 year old stay-at-home soccer mom… or even worse, a retired teacher with nothing better to do with her day.

Sometimes, I glance through Elite Daily because there’s topics that interest me. Their slogan is the voice for Generation Y. Which is very true. I also like to read editorial and opinion pieces in New York Times. Lastly, one of my favourite topics that I thoroughly enjoy reading about are social injustices and things that governments can do to correct them.

Recently, I have fallen in love with a social justice reporter at the Toronto Star, Laurie Monsebraaten. Laurie talks about topics like poverty, Children’s Aid and welfare. To me, these are topics that matter. I don’t want to say more than politics, as they’re linked together. However, people who face these crises on a daily basis are real people.

This morning, I almost died with excitement when reading Laurie’s newest article, Easier path to cash for adults, kids with disabilities. Anyone who knows me knows that although my passion is with seniors, another population that I love working with is young adults with disabilities.

August’s Press Release (from the ombudsman)

Last month, the Ontario ombudsman made a statement talking about how deeply flawed our system is for people with developmental disabilities. The article that Laurie wrote is compelling following the ombudsman’s comments. It talks about the crisis that our province is in when it comes to handling funding and care adults with developmental disabilities. It almost briefly mentions how our province doesn’t need promises; it needs solutions. The statistics that she mentioned in this topic are:
·         There are 7 000 adults with a developmental disability receiving ODSP (Ontario Disability Support Program) benefits, which allow up to $1 110 a month in funding.
·         There are 42 000 adults in Ontario receiving individualized developmental services and supports.
·         There are 18 000 adults with a developmental disability in Ontario living in group homes, or another form of support living.
·         There are currently 9 700 adults with a disability waiting for residential support
·         By 2017/2018, about 1 400 more adults will receive residential support
·         There are 365 community-based developmental services agencies funded by the province
·         There are 1 525 complaints about developmental services received by the ombudsman between November 2012 and August 2016

The final statistic breaks my heart. I know three years and ten months does seem like a long time, however that’s approximately 1 395 days. Therefore, the ombudsman received approximately one complaint per day about inadequate care, or lack thereof this. This is not fair to a population that is so incredibly vulnerable, and it is heartbreaking that there are 1 525 complaints for people who feel that their needs are not met. Change is so desperately needed in this province, and it needs to start now.

Today’s article…

After finding out that information about two weeks ago, I was absolutely thrilled to read this morning’s article! As of September 1st, 2016 there were changes made to the Special Services at Home program, as well as ODSP. This will positively impact about 22 000 children, as well as 3 000 adults. This is fantastic news!
In the article, it says:
“Until now, young people with developmental disabilities, such as autism and Down syndrome, had to prove their disability twice – once when seeking government funding for developmental services and again when applying for income support from ODSP.
But under the new changes, adults who qualify for developmental-services funding – which provides support for residential care, caregiver respite and other programs – will no longer have to go through a second process to verify their disability for ODSP.”
This article also provides statistics, and I am a sucker for stats. These stats include:
·         There are 4 000 adults receiving provincially funded developmental services
·         There are 19 000 adults receiving developmental services with Passport funding of up to $35 000 annually that allows for respite care and community supports
·         The average annual funding for Passport is $10 000
·         There are 22 000 children receiving Special Services at Home (SSAH) funding, which is up to $10 000 per year
·         The annual average for SSAH funding is $3 800
These changes are great, although we are still so far away from reaching a goal where all individuals with disabilities in Ontario receive help if they so choose ask for it. I loved working in developmental services, I worked in a group home for two summers as a summer student. Although there are some stigmas and marginalization toward individuals with disabilities in our society, I genuinely think some of the kindest people I have met have had some form of a disability. I think we often forget that individuals are still a human being, not their disability. As soon as our provincial government comes to a stronger realization of this, the population of individuals with a disability in Ontario will receive a lot better care.

What are your opinions on this topic? Let me know!

Tuesday, 6 September 2016

... and then there were three!

I'm getting promoted to unbiological auntie status in March! I'm so excited for one of my oldest gal pals, Emily! We've been friends since we were thirteen, and we've always had a very strong friendship, even if we go ages without talking. Plus, I've known the father of her baby, Tyler, since grade two. I'm so happy for the both of them and I can't wait until March to meet baby Butternut.


Monday, 5 September 2016

Links + Loves feat. My Favourite Books + a Giveaway!

I have been a reader forever! Since I can remember, I have been obsessed with picking up a good book. The past few years. I haven't been as actively reading, however, I thought that I would share my three favourite books right now!

The Rosie Project: I loved The Rosie Project and it's sequel, The Rosie Effect! It's an easy-to-read novel about a man named Don Tillman who is searching for "the one" using scientific experiments to find an appropriate soulmate. Both books had me busting a gut laughing the entire time.

Nineteen Minutes: I remember first reading this book when I was driving back from Florida when I was sixteen. I read it in the stretch from Florida to Tennessee and I simply could not put it down. Since then, I have read it at least a dozen times again. It's by the same author as My Sister's Keeper, but it's about a seventeen-year-old who shoots and kills nine of his fellow classmates, as well as a teacher. It reminds me a lot of the story behind the Columbine Massacre, however, the shooter does survive and it looks more at the psychological aspects as to why he did it. It's definitely an interesting but intense read. I love this book and could probably read it hundreds of times!

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns): I won't lie, I'm not much of an autobiography reader, especially celebrities. I find myself getting easily bored when I'm reading a celebrity's rags-to-riches story. However, both of Kaling's books made me split a gut laughing, have a lot of self-realization and reflection. Contrary to the belief of several, I personally prefer Mindy's first book over Why Not Me. There's just something about it! I have read both books several times, have yet to get sick of them and still laugh every time I read them. They're definitely books I recommend everyone pick up.

... and now, for the giveaway!


I have had the absolute pleasure of working with Alysse, Andy and (of course) Snickelfritz of NeighbourlyLove on Etsy. Alysse and Andy are a wonderful company from Toronto, who have also created my new favourite product, #theroryreadinglist! It is all of the books that Rory Gilmore read on Gilmore Girls; as well as a beautiful handdrawn photo of her and one of my favourite quotes, "I live in two worlds. One of them is books,"
I am giving away one of these beautiful posters to a lucky reader! I wish I could keep it for myself, however, I will be buying these for my GG-loving friends for Christmas. Definitely check it out, it's open to all readers in Canada & the US. 

Thursday, 1 September 2016

How I Scored My Dream Job at 23 (& How You Can, Too!)

Quite often, my friends joke that I’m a “professional student” because I’ve already spent four years in school and want to go back for more education. However, by the time I was 21, I started making a living working with seniors. At 23, I work two jobs (which I love!) and are completely relevant to what I went to school for. I may not be making the most amount of money, but I couldn’t be happier in the career that I’ve chosen.

Look at Job Search Engines Frequently!


I honestly still look through job search engines 2-3 times per day. I have two great jobs right now, but you never know when a company is going to have a job posting for your dream job. When I’m actively job seeking, I spend up to 6 hours per day looking! Websites I frequently use are Indeed and Charity Village. Additionally, I researched and found companies related to my field of work. Then I check their sites frequently. Two companies for seniors care in Canada are Chartwell and Revera.

Invest Time Applying for Each Job

I think the shortest amount of time that I have ever spent applying for a job where I actually got an interview was 25 minutes. I keep a generic cover letter and resume handy, then modify it for the job I’m applying to. I research every job that I apply to and look for the following:
·         Specific person or team that I’m applying to, or the first name of the manager. I find it seems much more personalized if you use the individual’s first name in the address line.
·         What the company’s mission and vision statement are
·         What skills you have that match the job description
·         What skills you have that can enhance their company

Unpaid Internships & Volunteer Work are Great Resume Builders

I have personally been volunteering with seniors for as long as I can remember. Additionally, I did high school co-ops in grades 11 and 12, where I worked in activation for seniors. In college, I did unpaid co-op placements; one in a day program, one in long-term care. I also have volunteer experiences in psychogeriatric counselling, public speaking and fundraising. If it wasn’t for these experiences, I definitely wouldn’t have gotten very far in my career.

Don’t Be Afraid to Start from the Bottom

The past few years, I have heard managers say “ugh! These millennials expect to start at the top”. I also have read case studies about young professionals who will walk into their supervisor’s office and say “hey, I’ve been here for two months. I expect a promotion!” Here’s a tip: don’t be that person! Hard work and dedication is how you get to the top. Every job that I have had has started as casual/on-call and most have been bumped up to part or full-time. Many times, I’ve wanted to quit these casual positions but ended up sticking it out.

Don’t Settle, but Don’t Expect Too Much

This kind of contradicts what I said previously, however, if you have a master’s degree and you’re flipping burgers, then you should reconsider your current path. If you’re in a pickle, apply for some unpaid internships to gain experience or pick up some courses to help specialize in your area of study. You can also start in a position similar to your dream to gain experience. For example, if your dream job is to work in a hospital as a nurse, applying to work at a retirement home or long-term care will continue to help you gain the skills a hospital would want to see.

Invest in a High Quality Resume

(For the safety of my clients and myself, I have chosen to remove my contact information as well as my workplaces)
I always keep a high-quality, updated resume and cover letter handy because you never know when your dream job will pop up. I always used free templated from Google. However, I’ve recently decided to invest some money on a high quality resume and cover letter. I personally love the sets that Chloe at ResumeMuse & SignatureResumes makes. Chloe’s resumes are simple and classic, yet very chic. Plus, they’re super affordable. Chloe also is willing to format the resume for a small additional fee. I’m so blessed to have found Chloe, her products are stunning and I look forward to using my resume by her throughout my career.

Use “Power Words” on Your Resume

I’ve always been taught to not simply write your resume, instead focus on accomplishments. With that being said, which one of these sound better?
a)      I wrote a report on increasing volunteers in long-term care
b)      I created a strategic action plan to increase the number of volunteers in a long-term care home
Chances are, you’re going to choose B.
I simply typed “power words for a resume” into Google. These are my favourites:
1.       Coordinated or executed
2.       Created or implemented
3.       Boosted or capitalized
4.       Clarified or refined
5.       Hired, inspired, mentored or unified

Transferrable Skills

Have you cared for your grandma with dementia and now you’re applying for a PSW position? You can add “able to give sensitive care to people who are elderly” to your resume. Have you worked at McDonald’s as a supervisor through college and are now applying for a marketing director position? You can add “able to help others gain knowledge and skills”, or talk about managing budgets.
Just because your job experience may not be perfect doesn’t mean you have no transferrable skills. Below is a checklist of transferrable skills. It was created by the University of Toledo; I found it on Pinterest.

Always Include a Cover Letter

(Again, for the safety of my clients and myself, I have removed my contact information/workplace)

I may sound like your annoying college counsellor, but I promise that they had a point! Though not recommended, a generic cover letter works. As previously mentioned, I take the extra 30 seconds to find the hiring manager/recruiter’s full name on the website, to make it seem more personalized. The introduction to my cover letter I usually use is:
Dear Ms. or Mr. (Hiring Manager’s Last Name).
Please find attached a copy of my enthusiastic application for the position of (job position) at (company’s name). After reviewing the job posting and your organization’s mission statement, I believe that I would be an excellent candidate. I have graduated from both Recreation & Leisure Services and Social Service Worker. I have four years of experience working directly with seniors, two of those years in activation. Currently, I’m working as an activity assistant and a one-on-one support worker; both in dementia care.
I then go into detail and highlight my skills relevant to the position. Once I complete that, I conclude with a paragraph emphasizing how I would appreciate the opportunity for an interview and provide my preferred my method of communication.

Dress Appropriately for Your Interview

Find out the general environment either for the particular company or the job in general. I work in a business casual environment, so I usually wear a pair of dress pants and a nice blouse to an interview; or a suit dress and cardigan. My mom works in a bank, so she wears a suit when she has interviews. However, remember this rule of thumb: dress for the job you want, not the job you have! So if the manager wears business professional but the assistants wear business casual, there’s no shame in showing up in a suit to your interview.

Research the Company and the Job, but Don’t Forget to Ask Questions

I always walk into an interview with a copy of the job posting, the company’s mission statement and their vision statement. I also make a list of questions that I want to know from the interviewer, so I can get a feel for the position and management team. Some questions I ask are:
·         What do you like most about working for this company? (or what is your favourite part of the job?)
·         What does a typical day-to-day look like for a position in this role?
·         Is there anything about my application that concerns you?
Big tip: take a pen with you! I have never not taken a pen with me to jot down answers to these questions. Not only does it make you look well prepared, but it also can help you decide whether or not you want to take a position.



I hope you enjoyed this post and have a lovely day!
Disclaimer: I received the resume, cover letter and reference documents as a donation from Chloe at ResumeMuse and SignatureResumes. However, all opinions expressed on my blog are my own.